[FEA] run_pyspark_from_build should have an easy way to set Java debugger options

[gerashegalov]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
As a developer upon encountering an pytest failure, I would like a simple way of adding JVM debugger options without altering the default test JVM options. Test failures may be results of violated assertions caught when default -ea flag is provided, and overriding the properties easily changes the test semantics.

Describe the solution you'd like
Either dedicated switches or environment variables for driver and executor debug options

Describe alternatives you've considered
As a workaround, when the problem reproduces in the local mode, one can pass Java debugger options to the driver
by misappropriating COVERAGE_SUBMIT_FLAGS that would apply extra options without overwriting the original options.

Additional context
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