diff --git a/config/config.go b/config/config.go
index b9e29b70ad1c1..4cc8a1f6ff7d9 100644
--- a/config/config.go
+++ b/config/config.go
@@ -543,6 +543,9 @@ func (c *Config) Valid() error {
 		return fmt.Errorf("invalid max log file size=%v which is larger than max=%v", c.Log.File.MaxSize, MaxLogFileSize)
 	}
 	c.OOMAction = strings.ToLower(c.OOMAction)
+	if c.OOMAction != OOMActionLog && c.OOMAction != OOMActionCancel {
+		return fmt.Errorf("unsupported OOMAction %v, TiDB only supports [%v, %v]", c.OOMAction, OOMActionLog, OOMActionCancel)
+	}
 
 	// lower_case_table_names is allowed to be 0, 1, 2
 	if c.LowerCaseTableNames < 0 || c.LowerCaseTableNames > 2 {
diff --git a/config/config_test.go b/config/config_test.go
index 299cbeaeb81b0..a648556d3a9c9 100644
--- a/config/config_test.go
+++ b/config/config_test.go
@@ -213,3 +213,21 @@ func (s *testConfigSuite) TestValid(c *C) {
 		c.Assert(c1.Valid() == nil, Equals, tt.valid)
 	}
 }
+
+func (s *testConfigSuite) TestOOMActionValid(c *C) {
+	c1 := NewConfig()
+	tests := []struct {
+		oomAction string
+		valid     bool
+	}{
+		{"log", true},
+		{"Log", true},
+		{"Cancel", true},
+		{"cANceL", true},
+		{"quit", false},
+	}
+	for _, tt := range tests {
+		c1.OOMAction = tt.oomAction
+		c.Assert(c1.Valid() == nil, Equals, tt.valid)
+	}
+}
diff --git a/executor/executor.go b/executor/executor.go
index 43017a0e25553..5a26b246f3adc 100644
--- a/executor/executor.go
+++ b/executor/executor.go
@@ -1303,11 +1303,15 @@ func ResetContextOfStmt(ctx sessionctx.Context, s ast.StmtNode) (err error) {
 	}
 	switch config.GetGlobalConfig().OOMAction {
 	case config.OOMActionCancel:
-		sc.MemTracker.SetActionOnExceed(&memory.PanicOnExceed{})
+		action := &memory.PanicOnExceed{ConnID: ctx.GetSessionVars().ConnectionID}
+		action.SetLogHook(domain.GetDomain(ctx).ExpensiveQueryHandle().LogOnQueryExceedMemQuota)
+		sc.MemTracker.SetActionOnExceed(action)
 	case config.OOMActionLog:
-		sc.MemTracker.SetActionOnExceed(&memory.LogOnExceed{})
+		fallthrough
 	default:
-		sc.MemTracker.SetActionOnExceed(&memory.LogOnExceed{})
+		action := &memory.LogOnExceed{ConnID: ctx.GetSessionVars().ConnectionID}
+		action.SetLogHook(domain.GetDomain(ctx).ExpensiveQueryHandle().LogOnQueryExceedMemQuota)
+		sc.MemTracker.SetActionOnExceed(action)
 	}
 
 	if execStmt, ok := s.(*ast.ExecuteStmt); ok {
diff --git a/server/server.go b/server/server.go
index b62d62fb2588d..f45cb65e6c7a7 100644
--- a/server/server.go
+++ b/server/server.go
@@ -490,8 +490,9 @@ func (s *Server) ShowProcessList() map[uint64]*util.ProcessInfo {
 		if atomic.LoadInt32(&client.status) == connStatusWaitShutdown {
 			continue
 		}
-		pi := client.ctx.ShowProcess()
-		rs[pi.ID] = pi
+		if pi := client.ctx.ShowProcess(); pi != nil {
+			rs[pi.ID] = pi
+		}
 	}
 	s.rwlock.RUnlock()
 	return rs
diff --git a/tidb-server/main.go b/tidb-server/main.go
index 38aa25018d731..8356c5fc4392f 100644
--- a/tidb-server/main.go
+++ b/tidb-server/main.go
@@ -516,7 +516,7 @@ func createServer() {
 	svr, err = server.NewServer(cfg, driver)
 	// Both domain and storage have started, so we have to clean them before exiting.
 	terror.MustNil(err, closeDomainAndStorage)
-	go dom.ExpensiveQueryHandle().Run(svr)
+	go dom.ExpensiveQueryHandle().SetSessionManager(svr).Run()
 }
 
 func serverShutdown(isgraceful bool) {
diff --git a/util/expensivequery/expensivequery.go b/util/expensivequery/expensivequery.go
index a8ec9aa45ec88..2689eac6092a8 100644
--- a/util/expensivequery/expensivequery.go
+++ b/util/expensivequery/expensivequery.go
@@ -32,15 +32,23 @@ import (
 // Handle is the handler for expensive query.
 type Handle struct {
 	exitCh chan struct{}
+	sm     util.SessionManager
 }
 
 // NewExpensiveQueryHandle builds a new expensive query handler.
 func NewExpensiveQueryHandle(exitCh chan struct{}) *Handle {
-	return &Handle{exitCh}
+	return &Handle{exitCh: exitCh}
+}
+
+// SetSessionManager sets the SessionManager which is used to fetching the info
+// of all active sessions.
+func (eqh *Handle) SetSessionManager(sm util.SessionManager) *Handle {
+	eqh.sm = sm
+	return eqh
 }
 
 // Run starts a expensive query checker goroutine at the start time of the server.
-func (eqh *Handle) Run(sm util.SessionManager) {
+func (eqh *Handle) Run() {
 	threshold := atomic.LoadUint64(&variable.ExpensiveQueryTimeThreshold)
 	curInterval := time.Second * time.Duration(threshold)
 	ticker := time.NewTicker(curInterval / 2)
@@ -50,7 +58,7 @@ func (eqh *Handle) Run(sm util.SessionManager) {
 			if log.GetLevel() > zapcore.WarnLevel {
 				continue
 			}
-			processInfo := sm.ShowProcessList()
+			processInfo := eqh.sm.ShowProcessList()
 			for _, info := range processInfo {
 				if len(info.Info) == 0 || info.ExceedExpensiveTimeThresh {
 					continue
@@ -72,6 +80,18 @@ func (eqh *Handle) Run(sm util.SessionManager) {
 	}
 }
 
+// LogOnQueryExceedMemQuota prints a log when memory usage of connID is out of memory quota.
+func (eqh *Handle) LogOnQueryExceedMemQuota(connID uint64) {
+	if log.GetLevel() > zapcore.WarnLevel {
+		return
+	}
+	info, ok := eqh.sm.GetProcessInfo(connID)
+	if !ok {
+		return
+	}
+	logExpensiveQuery(time.Since(info.Time), info)
+}
+
 // logExpensiveQuery logs the queries which exceed the time threshold or memory threshold.
 func logExpensiveQuery(costTime time.Duration, info *util.ProcessInfo) {
 	logFields := make([]zap.Field, 0, 20)
diff --git a/util/memory/action.go b/util/memory/action.go
index 49f7651a69e8f..e8f79ef7a5b12 100644
--- a/util/memory/action.go
+++ b/util/memory/action.go
@@ -15,6 +15,7 @@ package memory
 
 import (
 	"context"
+	"fmt"
 	"sync"
 
 	"github.com/pingcap/parser/mysql"
@@ -29,12 +30,22 @@ type ActionOnExceed interface {
 	// Action will be called when memory usage exceeds memory quota by the
 	// corresponding Tracker.
 	Action(t *Tracker)
+	// SetLogHook binds a log hook which will be triggered and log an detailed
+	// message for the out-of-memory sql.
+	SetLogHook(hook func(uint64))
 }
 
 // LogOnExceed logs a warning only once when memory usage exceeds memory quota.
 type LogOnExceed struct {
-	mutex sync.Mutex // For synchronization.
-	acted bool
+	mutex   sync.Mutex // For synchronization.
+	acted   bool
+	ConnID  uint64
+	logHook func(uint64)
+}
+
+// SetLogHook sets a hook for LogOnExceed.
+func (a *LogOnExceed) SetLogHook(hook func(uint64)) {
+	a.logHook = hook
 }
 
 // Action logs a warning only once when memory usage exceeds memory quota.
@@ -43,16 +54,26 @@ func (a *LogOnExceed) Action(t *Tracker) {
 	defer a.mutex.Unlock()
 	if !a.acted {
 		a.acted = true
-		logutil.Logger(context.Background()).Warn("memory exceeds quota",
-			zap.Error(errMemExceedThreshold.GenWithStackByArgs(t.label, t.BytesConsumed(), t.bytesLimit, t.String())))
-		return
+		if a.logHook == nil {
+			logutil.Logger(context.Background()).Warn("memory exceeds quota",
+				zap.Error(errMemExceedThreshold.GenWithStackByArgs(t.label, t.BytesConsumed(), t.bytesLimit, t.String())))
+			return
+		}
+		a.logHook(a.ConnID)
 	}
 }
 
 // PanicOnExceed panics when memory usage exceeds memory quota.
 type PanicOnExceed struct {
-	mutex sync.Mutex // For synchronization.
-	acted bool
+	mutex   sync.Mutex // For synchronization.
+	acted   bool
+	ConnID  uint64
+	logHook func(uint64)
+}
+
+// SetLogHook sets a hook for PanicOnExceed.
+func (a *PanicOnExceed) SetLogHook(hook func(uint64)) {
+	a.logHook = hook
 }
 
 // Action panics when memory usage exceeds memory quota.
@@ -64,7 +85,10 @@ func (a *PanicOnExceed) Action(t *Tracker) {
 	}
 	a.acted = true
 	a.mutex.Unlock()
-	panic(PanicMemoryExceed + t.String())
+	if a.logHook != nil {
+		a.logHook(a.ConnID)
+	}
+	panic(PanicMemoryExceed + fmt.Sprintf("[conn_id=%d]", a.ConnID))
 }
 
 var (
diff --git a/util/memory/tracker_test.go b/util/memory/tracker_test.go
index 11c6be4848c75..bf7ac98ecc506 100644
--- a/util/memory/tracker_test.go
+++ b/util/memory/tracker_test.go
@@ -98,6 +98,9 @@ type mockAction struct {
 	called bool
 }
 
+func (a *mockAction) SetLogHook(hook func(uint64)) {
+}
+
 func (a *mockAction) Action(t *Tracker) {
 	a.called = true
 }