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WEBVTT
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<v Speaker 1>Do you have problems in your life that </v>
<v Speaker 1>you're not addressing that you could </v>
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<v Speaker 1>solve and answer is yes,</v>
<v Speaker 1>and it's an easy thing to figure out.</v>
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<v Speaker 1>You sit on your bed one morning and say,</v>
<v Speaker 1>okay,</v>
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<v Speaker 1>there's some things that need to be done</v>
<v Speaker 1>that I don't want to do that I could do </v>
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<v Speaker 1>that would make things better.</v>
<v Speaker 1>By the end of the day,</v>
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<v Speaker 1>what are they?</v>
<v Speaker 1>Well,</v>
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<v Speaker 1>your,</v>
<v Speaker 1>your conscience will deliver those </v>
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<v Speaker 1>suckers no time flat now,</v>
<v Speaker 1>and then you might have to say,</v>
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<v Speaker 1>okay,</v>
<v Speaker 1>well how do I entice myself into doing a</v>
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<v Speaker 1>few of those and if you ask,</v>
<v Speaker 1>instead of trying to force yourself to </v>
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<v Speaker 1>do it like you're a tyrant and a slave </v>
<v Speaker 1>at the same time,</v>
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<v Speaker 1>you can usually negotiate with yourself </v>
<v Speaker 1>so that you'll start to sort those </v>
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<v Speaker 1>things out,</v>
<v Speaker 1>sort them out,</v>
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<v Speaker 1>put your house in order and then move </v>
<v Speaker 1>out.</v>
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<v Speaker 1>Move on and out.</v>
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<v Speaker 1>Yes,</v>
<v Speaker 1>that's a freudian slip by the way.</v>
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<v Speaker 1>So it's important because the thing is </v>
<v Speaker 1>you have a practice domain,</v>
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<v Speaker 1>right?</v>
<v Speaker 1>There are,</v>
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<v Speaker 1>there are things that are within your </v>
<v Speaker 1>grasp that you could fix.</v>
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<v Speaker 1>Fix them and you'll learn.</v>
<v Speaker 1>You'll learn because it's harder than it</v>
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<v Speaker 1>looks.</v>
<v Speaker 1>Fix them and you'll learn how to fix </v>
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<v Speaker 1>things and then something else will </v>
<v Speaker 1>beckon as another problem that you could</v>
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<v Speaker 1>fix.</v>
<v Speaker 1>You know,</v>
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<v Speaker 1>you all have your problems.</v>
<v Speaker 1>What does that mean?</v>
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<v Speaker 1>Like there's an infinite number of </v>
<v Speaker 1>problems in the world.</v>
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<v Speaker 1>Some of them happened to be yours.</v>
<v Speaker 1>Why is that?</v>
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<v Speaker 1>I don't know exactly,</v>
<v Speaker 1>but you have your problems.</v>
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<v Speaker 1>Great.</v>
<v Speaker 1>Solve them.</v>
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<v Speaker 1>You know,</v>
<v Speaker 1>one of the things I learned as a </v>
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<v Speaker 1>therapist,</v>
<v Speaker 1>every therapist has to learn this </v>
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<v Speaker 1>because one of the things you wonder </v>
<v Speaker 1>when you're first starting to be a </v>
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<v Speaker 1>clinician is how do you not take the </v>
<v Speaker 1>catastrophes of your client's home with </v>
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<v Speaker 1>you?</v>
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<v Speaker 1>And the answer to that is because it's </v>
<v Speaker 1>immoral to.</v>
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<v Speaker 1>They're not your problems,</v>
<v Speaker 1>their,</v>
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<v Speaker 1>their problems,</v>
<v Speaker 1>like their,</v>
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<v Speaker 1>their,</v>
<v Speaker 1>their life.</v>
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<v Speaker 1>You know,</v>
<v Speaker 1>your problems are your life.</v>
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<v Speaker 1>You don't want to solve someone else's </v>
<v Speaker 1>problems for them because you take away </v>
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<v Speaker 1>the deep meaning.</v>
<v Speaker 1>That's to be found in having them work </v>
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<v Speaker 1>through the problems on their own and </v>
<v Speaker 1>then you steal the credit.</v>
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<v Speaker 1>Well,</v>
<v Speaker 1>I can help you with that.</v>
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<v Speaker 1>It's like,</v>
<v Speaker 1>well,</v>
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<v Speaker 1>yeah,</v>
<v Speaker 1>maybe,</v>
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<v Speaker 1>but I don't help you with the next </v>
<v Speaker 1>problem.</v>
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<v Speaker 1>Then.</v>
<v Speaker 1>So in any case,</v>
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<v Speaker 1>you sort sort out the problems that are </v>
<v Speaker 1>right in front of you and you will.</v>
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<v Speaker 1>It will make you grow very,</v>
<v Speaker 1>very rapidly and then you'll be able to </v>
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<v Speaker 1>sort out more complex problems without </v>
<v Speaker 1>making them worse.</v>