[FEA] validate values for critical build properties

[gerashegalov]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
As a new developer I would like the build to fail if invalid values are specified.

Describe the solution you'd like
Use maven enforcer plugin to validate subtle properties https://maven.apache.org/enforcer/enforcer-rules/requireProperty.html

Describe alternatives you've considered

1. Only use static profiles for building without allowing customization via -D
2. deprecate direct maven usage and settle to a script like buildall and restrict and validate params there.

Additional context
a user experienced a subtle validation issue

[ERROR] /rapids-plugin/dist/maven-antrun/build-parallel-worlds.xml:133: exec check-shims-revisions.sh failed, exit code is 1, error msg is Check Failed: git revisions between shims are not equal
[ERROR] Please check the revisions of each shim to see which one is inconsistent. Note, if building with Databricks those jars are built separately.

which was too far away from the root cause that ended up being an invalid value for the buildver property

[gerashegalov]

We already have enforcer as part of our build and it validates Maven, and Java versions e.g. #9615 .

Misspelled buildver is no longer possible because of the spark-rapids-private dependency would fail the build on the incorrect spark.version.classifer