[FEA] don't release with any -SNAPSHOT dependencies

[revans2]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
Now that we have shim layers we can support multiple versions of spark from a single jar (including unreleased SNAPSHOT versions) Generally it is bad practice to depend on a SNAPSHOT version in a release.

Describe the solution you'd like
Have a maven profile that lets us disable all of the shim layers that depend on a SNAPSHOT release. Ideally it would look at the version numbers to do this, but I don't think maven is capable of that, so we probably need to manually maintain the list of shim projects that should be a part of a release and which should not.

Would also be good to include this as a part of the pre-commit build so we know if someone broke the build by having a a release version of something depend on a non-release version. Sadly this is really only ever going to be the case for data bricks, so until we have databricks as a part of the pre-commit build we might not see a lot of success from this.

Describe alternatives you've considered
capture the spark SNAPSHOT jars this is built against so we could release it, but that might be problematic too.