optimize: opt the logback's config of seata-server

[wangliang181230]

optimize: opt the logback's config of seata-server.
优化seata-server的logback相关的配置。

1. 修复file-appender中生成的日志文件名，无法读取RPC端口的问题；
2. 移除之前从spring-boot.jar中复制过来的类，并修改对应的配置；
3. 移除启动命令的参数：-Dlogback.color.disable-for-bat=true；
   （注：之前是用来解决在windows系统中使用seata-server.bat启动时，出现颜色符乱码问题，
   现在使用spring-boot启动项目了，已不存在此问题。）
4. logback.xml重命名为logback-spring.xml；
5. application.yaml重命名为application.yml;（本人有强迫证，就是想少个字符，哈哈）
6. 将logback-spring.xml与application.yml中添加的几个原有配置和扩展配置关联起来。使logback相关的部分配置，可以在application.yml中进行配置，方便以后logback的配置在配置中心进行配置。
7. server模块跳过deploy，即不上传依赖，因为它是一个应用，而不是用来提供依赖的。

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Merging #3760 (0bd623b) into develop (9beea74) will increase coverage by 0.21%.
The diff coverage is 0.00%.

@@              Coverage Diff              @@
##             develop    #3760      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage      41.03%   41.25%   +0.21%     
  Complexity      2946     2946              
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  Files            659      654       -5     
  Lines          22055    21939     -116     
  Branches        2736     2721      -15     
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  Hits            9051     9051              
+ Misses         12159    12043     -116     
  Partials         845      845              

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ	Complexity Δ
...ava/io/seata/core/constants/ConfigurationKeys.java	0.00% <ø> (ø)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
server/src/main/java/io/seata/server/Server.java	0.00% <ø> (ø)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
...c/main/java/io/seata/server/ServerApplication.java	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
.../listener/SystemPropertyLoggerContextListener.java	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
...ack/ExtendedWhitespaceThrowableProxyConverter.java	0.00% <ø> (ø)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)

[slievrly]

LGTM

[funky-eyes]

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