ci: add merge_queue trigger for required workflows

[julienrbrt]

Description

Discovered by @mark-rushakoff. Our CI was stuck on required jobs after merge queue enabling.
This is an attempt to fix that. https://github.com/cosmos/cosmos-sdk/queue/main

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Author Checklist

All items are required. Please add a note to the item if the item is not applicable and
please add links to any relevant follow up issues.

I have...

• included the correct type prefix in the PR title
• added ! to the type prefix if API or client breaking change
• targeted the correct branch (see PR Targeting)
• provided a link to the relevant issue or specification
• followed the guidelines for building modules
• included the necessary unit and integration tests
• added a changelog entry to CHANGELOG.md
• included comments for documenting Go code
• updated the relevant documentation or specification
• reviewed "Files changed" and left comments if necessary
• confirmed all CI checks have passed

Reviewers Checklist

All items are required. Please add a note if the item is not applicable and please add
your handle next to the items reviewed if you only reviewed selected items.

I have...

• confirmed the correct type prefix in the PR title
• confirmed ! in the type prefix if API or client breaking change
• confirmed all author checklist items have been addressed
• reviewed state machine logic
• reviewed API design and naming
• reviewed documentation is accurate
• reviewed tests and test coverage
• manually tested (if applicable)

[julienrbrt]

I will make this jump on top of the queue after CI here passed.

[mark-rushakoff]

Thanks for fixing that.

[julienrbrt]

Looking at this https://github.com/cosmos/cosmos-sdk/actions/runs/4701569451/jobs/8337761568 👀