[EuiTablePagination] Incorrect type for itemsPerPage and itemsPerPageOptions depending on pagination.pageSizeOptions

[thompsongl]

Given the following configuration:

const [pageIndex, setPageIndex] = useState(0);
const [pageSize, setPageSize] = useState(5);

return (
<EuiInMemoryTable
  items={items}
  columns={columns}
  pagination={{
    pageIndex,
    pageSize,
    totalItemCount,
    pageSizeOptions: [5, 10, 15, 20],
  }}
  onTableChange={({ page: { index, size } }) => {
    setPageIndex(index);
    setPageSize(size);
  }}
/>
);

Consumers will get confusing type warnings for setPageSize(size) of the following shape:

Argument of type 'number | "all"' is not assignable to parameter of type 'SetStateAction<number>'.
  Type 'string' is not assignable to type 'SetStateAction<number>'.

'all' is not a valid return value for page.size in this scenario because the return type of onTableChange has not taken pagination.pageSizeOptions into account.
'number | "all"' should only be the return type if pagination.pageSizeOptions also includes 'all'.

Similarly, itemsPerPage page should only accept 'all' when pagination.pageSizeOptions also includes 'all'

NB: 'all' was introduced in #5547

[thompsongl]

This causes quite a few type errors in elastic/kibana#126926, mostly related to EuiInMemoryTable.onTableChange (as noted in the summary).