Add priority order to controls

[imorland]

When extending sidebarItems, it is currently not possible to easily define where new components should appear in the ItemList due to no priority being set on controls.

Changes proposed in this pull request:
Set an initial priority on the controls item to 100

Reviewers should focus on:

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Necessity

• Has the problem that is being solved here been clearly explained?
• If applicable, have various options for solving this problem been considered?
• For core PRs, does this need to be in core, or could it be in an extension?
• Are we willing to maintain this for years / potentially forever?

Confirmed

• Frontend changes: tested on a local Flarum installation.
• Backend changes: tests are green (run composer test).
• Core developer confirmed locally this works as intended.
• Tests have been added, or are not appropriate here.

Required changes:

• Related documentation PR: (Remove if irrelevant)
• Related core extension PRs: (Remove if irrelevant)