[TensorRT EP] Update TRT10.0 deprecated api

[yf711]

Description

Note:

• This PR would remove C4996 suppression in tensorrt_execution_provider.cc only (according to Nvidia, places with nvinfer.h included need C4996 suppression, when /Zc:__cplusplus is enabled in ORT win build)
• A follow-up PR will be raised to update deprecated TRT Plugin api usage.

Here are deprecated apis to be updated in this PR:

deprecated api	Update
kCUBLAS	/
kCUBLAS_LT	/
kCUDNN	/
reallocateOutput	Superseded by reallocateOutputAsync with cudaStream_t argument
createExecutionContextWithoutDeviceMemory	Superseded by createExecutionContext() with parameter. Check ExecutionContextAllocationStrategy::kUSER_MANAGED for more detail

Motivation and Context

TRT deprecated api list: https://docs.nvidia.com/deeplearning/tensorrt/api/c_api/deprecated.html

[tianleiwu]

Please remove lines with 4996 from the following files.

• onnxruntime/core/providers/tensorrt/nv_includes.h
• onnxruntime/test/unittest_main/test_main.cc

[yf711]

Please remove lines with 4996 from the following files.

• onnxruntime/core/providers/tensorrt/nv_includes.h
• onnxruntime/test/unittest_main/test_main.cc

Thanks for the context. These 4996 usage have been reverted

[jywu-msft]

there are build errors?

D:\a_work_temp\TensorRT-10.0.1.6.Windows10.x86_64.cuda-11.8\include\NvInferRuntimeBase.h#L593
D:\a_work_temp\TensorRT-10.0.1.6.Windows10.x86_64.cuda-11.8\include\NvInferRuntimeBase.h(593,16): Error C4996: 'nvinfer1::v_1_0::IGpuAllocator::allocate': was declared deprecated

[yf711]

Including nvinfer.h would cause C4996 errors during Windows ORT build, when /Zc:__cplusplus is enabled:
nvinfer1::v_1_0::IGpuAllocator::allocate
nvinfer1::v_1_0::IGpuAllocator::deallocate
nvinfer1::IPluginV2
nvinfer1::IPluginV2Ext
It seems that there are indirect usage of these api by TRT internally. I'm adding C4996 suppression back temporarily and checking with Nvidia for better solution on that.

[jywu-msft]

was the rellocateOutput->reallocateOutputAsync change tested on Faster-RCNN with oss parser?

[yf711]

was the rellocateOutput->reallocateOutputAsync change tested on Faster-RCNN with oss parser?

That has been tested with no issue