Find the alive incoming entry on disconnect. (#6320)

When a peer in `Incoming` state disconnects, the "alive" entry
in the `incoming` list for that peer must be updated (set to `false`).
Currently the entry that is updated may be an earlier entry for the
same peer that is already no longer alive. This can happen if a
peer repeatedly connects (incoming) and disconnects between invocations to
`poll()` of the behaviour.

client/network/src/protocol/generic_proto/behaviour.rs

@@ -1086,7 +1086,9 @@ impl NetworkBehaviour for GenericProto {
 			// In the incoming state, we don't report "Dropped". Instead we will just ignore the
 			// corresponding Accept/Reject.
 			Some(PeerState::Incoming { }) => {
-				if let Some(state) = self.incoming.iter_mut().find(|i| i.peer_id == *peer_id) {
+				if let Some(state) = self.incoming.iter_mut()
+					.find(|i| i.alive && i.peer_id == *peer_id)
+				{
 					debug!(target: "sub-libp2p",
 						"Libp2p => Disconnected({}): Was in incoming mode with id {:?}.",
 						peer_id, state.incoming_id);