Add support for parser object to parserOptions.parser

[ota-meshi]

This PR changes parserOptions.parser to allow you to directly specify a parser object.

As background, ESLint core is planning a new flat configuration.
https://eslint.org/blog/2022/08/new-config-system-part-1/

The new configuration allows you to specify parser objects directly.
https://eslint.org/blog/2022/08/new-config-system-part-2/#custom-parsers-and-parser-options-are-mostly-the-same

For this reason, there is a possibility that parsers that do not assume module name specification as before will appear.
The changes in this PR are intended to follow the new parser specification method.

However, you cannot use the custom parser provided by the plugin by name. Because the plugin configuration is not accessible from the parser options.
https://eslint.org/blog/2022/08/new-config-system-part-2/#custom-parsers-in-plugins