[FLINK-23025][upsert-kafka] Fix upsert-kafka produce duplicates when enable object reuse

[fsk119]

What is the purpose of the change

Fix upsert-kafka produce duplicates when enable object reuse.

Verifying this change

• Add tests in BufferedUpsertSinkFunctionTest to verify the results if enable object reuse.

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[wuchong]

LGTM.

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[fsk119]

The failed test is about elaseticserach...

[wuchong]

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