server: let select for update could be recorded for slow log and statements (#16743)

[sre-bot]

cherry-pick #16743 to release-3.1

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What problem does this PR solve?

Problem Summary:
The pessimistic select for update statements could not be logged as slow query, also other things RecordSet.Close will do

What is changed and how it works?

Proposal: xxx

What's Changed:

Change the close function of chunkRowRecordSet

How it Works:

Related changes

• Need to cherry-pick to the release branch

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
  Start two sessions let the second select for update statement wait lock for sometime, the slow query should recorded like

# Conn_ID: 2
# Query_time: 8.580836624
# Parse_time: 0.000062642
# Compile_time: 0.000029461
# LockKeys_time: 8.580678652
# DB: test
# Is_internal: false
# Digest: 0cef963ebac4619e5a5c4562d83626a3abb5df2b0501a4dbeae157f7e5356cff
# Num_cop_tasks: 0
# Prepared: false
# Has_more_results: false
# Succ: true
# Plan: tidb_decode_plan('JIwwCTM2XzEJMAkxCXRhYmxlOnQxLCBoYW5kbGU6MiwgbG9jawo=')
# Plan_digest: 3f5625f5b5b7a079571f7844fe4e63a6587a0674dace590987cdb159574bdd22
select * from t1 where c1 = 2 for update;

Side effects

Release note

[sre-bot]

/run-all-tests